Table 3 Participant reactions to counseling modules

Healthy Relationships Counseling

I liked that I was able to talk to a stranger about my relationship because he or she will not be judgmental or take sides. (Zanele, age 30–34)

Talking to the counselor made me see things in a different angle, it made me realize that there are some things that I was doing towards my partner unaware that they are not right. (Nozizwe, age 20–24)

Partner Communication Counseling

I liked the module because it worked for me greatly. I was just a person who would keep quiet whenever I do not like something that my partner does. This module encouraged me to talk to my partner about what I don’t like…in a constructive manner. (Duduzile, age 35–39)

I liked that the counsellor touched on anger issues affecting communication in our relationship and how to calm down even when angry and talk things out instead of adding fuel in the fire. (Kholwa, age 25–29)

Ring Disclosure Counseling

I liked that they gave me ideas on ring disclosure and it worked—my partner now knows I’m using the ring and he doesn’t have a problem with it. (Mbalenhle, age 25–29)

IPV Counseling

It made me realize that I don’t have to let anyone control me and to stay in an abusive relationship (Sihle, age 20–24)

I did not like that the tool chose for me this module while I was not going through any abuse in my relationship. (Unathi, age 30–34)